Last sharing we talked about how few young people are serving full time. One reason for this is that the church is not playing its role. Another possible reason is the role of parents.
The role of the parents is very important in encouraging more young people to serve full time as a pastor. Do parents encourage their children and pray earnestly for their children to commit to full-time ministry? Or are they constantly instilling worldly values and emphasize in materialistic success? Even though we have been focusing more and more on education, we have also distorted the purpose of education. Often, parents nurture their children with the sole purpose of expecting them to grow up to be successful in their careers or financially.
How many parents in the Diocese of West Malaysia educate their children with the hope that their children will serve God better? How many parents from an early age encourage their children to grow up to be pastors? How many parents instil in their children from an early age biblical values rather than the values of this world? How many parents focus on their children’s spiritual life more than their academic achievements? Can a child raised with worldly values grow up with heavenly values? Unfortunately, most of our Christian parents have secular values even in themselves.
The influence of parents on their children is crucial. What they say and do every day nurtures their children’s thinking. In fact, to put it bluntly, I believe that the vast majority of Christian parents do not want their children to become pastors.
At the end of the day, we must go back to the spiritual qualities of the Christian parent. If Christian parents do not have a change of life and are not committed to serving the Lord, then this vicious circle will continue. If there is no systematic, continuous and comprehensive discipleship training in the Diocese, Christian parents will not grow and will not be committed.